For the young women of today…
Learn to love yourself first before looking for it somewhere else…
By doing so, you will have better standards in choosing your future partner.
Choose the one who will make you feel you are the best thing that happened in his life so you will have no doubt about his love for you.
The one who will strive in giving his best to make you a part of his future not the other way around…
The one who will make you feel you are safe in his love so you don’t have to beg for loyalty nor compete with other women…
The one who knows the responsibility of being the man in the house not the one who will make you shoulder the responsibility. It’s ok at first but I’m telling you, you will also get tired.
The one who WILL rejoice with you in your triumph, comfort you in your sadness, give assurance when you are in doubt, lift you up when you’re down and stay still despite of your moods and stubbornness…
Furthermore, wait for a God-fearing man. He, who will bring you closer to God because a relationship that is God centered will never be swayed…
I am telling you this so you will not take the road I have travelled. Don’t get me wrong though. I don’t regret being a single mom for my 2 kids. They are the best thing that happened to me. But if you are not strong as me, you will not survive. Besides, there are still good men out there who create happy wives. So aim to belong to
the tribe of happy wives then…
einalemthoutz 